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Columbia Vista Restaurant Bucket List

2016-vista-restaurant-bucket-listThis year is our first year of marriage. So naturally, we made a bucket list of places to go on Gervais street in the Vista to make sure we’d tried everything.

You can download the bucket list and try it yourself, if you’d like. Below is a list of all the places we’ve been so far.



Grill Marks

We went to GrillMarks last night and it was amazing. Their Hawaiian Punch burger has a ton of flavor, the burger was cooked perfectly at medium, and the bun was soft and tasty. Add in some truffle fries which were fresh, not too “truffly” and came with a great sauce that looked like hollandaise. Our only regret was not ordering a milkshake.


Ramen House

We went to Ramen house on our honeymoon and I love it. If you’ve never had *good* ramen before, you need to try this. It’s nothing like the $0.25 packets you may have had in college. Their serving size is massive and I always eat the whole thing.

TakoSushi – Molly’s favorite

This place has a great happy hour, is local and offers really great options of both sushi and southwestern food. They have posole (Mexican party soup) as well fried asparagus and fresh sushi. Overall, this is one of our favorite places in Columbia.


Mellow Mushroom

Mellow’s a Vista classic. Their pizza’s are interesting. We’ve had the Philosopher’s Pie a couple times and Molly loves it. I think their dough outpaces all other pizza places. Plus their upstairs is cool.

Old Chicago

Old Chicago is right up there with Mellow. They are newer and always packed. Their beer list is good and the pizzas are consistently delicious. It’s, unfortunately, not really Chicago-style.


Panera Bread

I’m honestly a little bummed this is here. We would’ve rather seen a local store, but nonetheless it’s good. Soups, sandwiches, salads. Lots of seating.

Ristorante Divino

One time we went here on a date and we were the only people in the restaurant. I asked the chef to make whatever he wanted to make and his lamb chops were incredible. This place is probably the most underrated location in the Vista. They offer a variety of Italian pasta and entreé options.



When Molly & I went there the first time, she got a Bourbon milkshake which was way too much bourbon. The server recommended a cookie sundae which we’ve now had twice. They often have a significant wait, and the store isn’t conducive to “after dinner chill” in the same way Drip (in 5 Points) is. However, their dessert is a great complement to the area’s dinner options. I personally prefer Kaminsky’s to Nonnah’s.


Where Kaminsky’s is a new, trendy spot, Nonnah’s is classic Columbia. They have an art gallery and a wide selection of homemade cakes which are sure to please. Their espresso drinks are good too.


It’s a Starbucks.


Gervais & Vine

They’re everything you imagine about South Carolina tapas and get points for being a local establishment. We had a pizza which wasn’t good, an appetizer which was delicious and a course of meatballs which were only ok. I think our dinner could’ve been better if we had ordered differently. They’re ok at dinner, and probably a great place to grab a drink and appetizers. In fact, do that.


The South Will Rise Again

I want to talk about our history.

On September 25, 1919, the Omaha Bee accused a black man named Will Brown of assaulting “pretty little Anges Loebeck” while she walked home. A few days later, a mob of over 5,000 people assembled outside the jail and demanded the jailers release him to “lynch law.”

When the jailers refused, the mob set the jail on fire and eventually pulled him from the flames, only to knock him unconscious and burn him. He was eventually killed by bullets and rope and burning gas and his body dragged through the streets. Later, pieces of the rope were sold for ten cents each as souvenirs.

For all the talk of honoring our heritage as southerners, I think we should take a moment to remember that story. Even though this story happened in Omaha, the South had more of the same.

96 years later, On June 17, 2015 a white man walked into a bible study, sat there for an hour, and then opened fire. He killed nine black people, each in turn, while breathing hatred for their race. His objective: start a war. He wanted the South to rise again.

But the response was different. This man was neither celebrated nor ignored. His actions were rightly called an act of racial terrorism. But instead of a mob, we are learning to mourn together and instead of lynching we have due process which will end in a conviction and, in some small measure, justice. This is the only way forward. Today, we live in a world where the mob (sometimes) cries for peace.

The South has long been the epicenter of racial tension. Those who came before us participated in violent crimes against people simply because of the color of their skin. We sank to depths of depraved violence and cultural affirmation of racism currently incomprehensible to most Americans.

And through all the violence, the way forward has always been by way of peace. The Civil Rights movement taught us this. I am so very proud of my state and city for responding without looting or further acts of violence and with a heart of unity.

So yes, let’s remember our history. How we lynched people for crimes they were not convicted of and allowed the mob to dictate justice. Let’s remember the children who bought ten cent ropes as souvenirs for a crime, not by fault of their own but because of the sins of their parents. Let’s remember how we as a society systematically oppressed our neighbors in the name of Christianity, rather than love them like Jesus would. And let’s be honest that the same issues that existed then continue in varied form today.

With that basis of honesty, I am optimistic. You see, I believe that out of these depths, the South will rise again. Yes, we will rise to love our neighbor as ourselves. We will rise to end discrimination. We will rise to equal opportunities for education, justice, and freedom for all. We will rise to remove a flag that symbolizes the ongoing struggle for justice in our nation. Because we know our history and the way forward is unity.

Years ago, old men would sit by a campfire and mutter: “the South will rise again” as they anticipated southern resurgence. I can only imagine their surprise to see the South rise again – in love.


P.S. Astute readers of the scripture will notice that this trajectory is a re-telling of the gospel of Jesus, who was himself murdered by a mob for a crime he didn’t commit and rose again to create freedom for a people oppressed, not by cultural domination but by instituting a new Kingdom of love, grace and justice.

Photo by Jen

Christmas Yourself

I love getting packages in the mail. For me, it’s all about the drama. You buy something from Amazon, and they send you an email: “it’s shipped.” Wait a day and you’ll see that it’s “out for delivery”. And a short 48 hours after you paid, a smiling lady walks up to the door with a box and rings the doorbell.

This is how I starting Christmasing myself.

I took $100 and decided to do something nice for myself. I like books, so I bought a bunch. 15, I think. No special occasion, no reason, just wanted some books and decided to go a little overboard for the fun of it. Books by dead people…Mother Theresa, Plato, Henry Ford.

As it turns out, the good people at Amazon decided to send my packages via Fedex, UPS, and USPS. I spent yesterday with package deliverers lined up, waiting to drop off books.

And it was amazing. So much fun to rip open the boxes and look at the books and think about reading them. On my “love language” test, I don’t think I score very high for gifts. BUT I LOVED IT. Simple, cost $100, and great.

The Rules
The rules of Christmasing yourself are simple. No more than $100 and make sure to get lots of little things. Maybe even space them out on shipping so you don’t get everything all at once. And only once per year. Any more and it’s gluttony. 😉

The Challenge
The challenge I’m giving myself now is…how can I Christmas someone else? No reason, no particular timing. But the Bible gives Christians the motivation and the prompting to love others…sometimes…by Christmasing them.

Bootstrapper Manifesto

Be inspired:

I am a bootstrapper. I have initiative and insight and guts, but not much money. I will succeed because my efforts and my focus will defeat bigger and better-funded competitors. I am fearless. I keep my focus on growing the business—not on politics, career advancement, or other wasteful distractions.

I will leverage my skills to become the key to every department of my company, yet realize that hiring experts can be the secret to my success. I will be a fervent and intelligent user of technology, to conserve my two most precious assets: time and money.

My secret weapon is knowing how to cut through bureaucracy. My size makes me faster and more nimble than any company could ever be.

I am a laser beam. Opportunities will try to cloud my focus, but I will not waver from my stated goal and plan—until I change it. And I know that plans were made to be changed. I’m in it for the long haul. Building a business that will last separates me from the opportunist, and is an investment in my brand and my future. Surviving is succeeding, and each day that goes by makes it easier still for me to reach my goals.

– Seth Godin in the Bootstrappers Bible

I was so moved by these words that I am switching to just use my computer for work. Entertainment can happen on my phone and AppleTV. To remind myself to stay focused, I’m redirecting the following services to the page you’re reading now:

  • Facebook
  • Hacker News (major tears, but this is a terrible habit.)
  • Macrumors
  • Mashable
  • Techcrunch
  • Instagram

Buying a House

I’m in the process of buying a house. The options are enough to make you go crazy. 3 bedrooms. 2 baths. Oh wait that’s 1.5 baths. 1200 square feet. Big lot. Small lot. Is there hardwood or is that laminate? What about the crime rate? I think someone’s car was stolen in that area.

I can afford $110k right? But $125k houses look like a lot better value and it’s only like $75/month more. Can I afford $75/month?

What is my credit score? What IS a credit score?

Then there are “fixer upper” options. They’re $80k but need $25k+ of work. Can I get a loan for that? With the allure of thousands of dollars in profit over the course of a few years, a few (hundred) hours of sweat equity seems worth it.

Yesterday I was talking to Rusty at work and his advice was helpful. Continue reading “Buying a House”

Interview: Africa in 2013

blessing_41Recently we were talking about what smart people expect to happen with Africa in the world economy. Since I’m not African, I reached out to my friend Blessing Mpofu from South Africa. He can’t speak for the whole continent, but was willing to share his thoughts into what is really inspiring people these days.

Blessing’s response helped me understand a little bit more about how our friends in Africa are thinking.

Here’s the interview: Continue reading “Interview: Africa in 2013”

The Wall


Last week I was on day 17 (in a row) of working one-hour+ on this search for a startup. Things were moving. Each day was fun. I think I wrote an average of 1000 words a day, not because I was trying to, but because I had a lot to say.

Then I hit a wall so hard and didn’t even see it coming.

Out of ideas. Feeling unmotivated to keep moving forward. Not sure if people would ever buy anything I produced. Seriously, the song of self doubt is on repeat. Continue reading “The Wall”